The G-spot: Females

Any one of us has the ability to Google “Where is the G-spot?” but that does not mean we will be able to find it following diagrams and Wikipedia. Because there is already an abundance of medical and instructional information out there for those interested, we shall explore a more personal direction from here.

For some women, their partners stimulate the G-spot quite accidentally while having intercourse and these women don’t need to go looking for it. Further, some of these women naturally “squirt” with this type of stimulation, and their partner receives a warm, gushy surprise. However, the G Spot is elusive for many other women.

The G-spot for a female is located a few inches inside the body. If you or your lover is lying back down, stomach up, the magic little button is on the top wall of the vagina. There are many ways to hit this spot, but the easiest way to hit it when practicing to find it is by simply hooking a finger or two upwards and crooking it or them in a “come hither” motion. You should feel a patch of spongy flesh. You’ve hit the jackpot!

When you’re messaging this tiny organ, keep in mind that the pressure you feel building will be drastically different than that of any kind of clitoral stimulation. It is said that younger women often prefer the clitoral orgasm to the G-spot one, but I wouldn’t agree with that. Dependent on your mood, they’ll both work just fine.

Don’t be afraid if it takes you or your partner a great deal of time before you are able to reach that climax. If you haven’t happened upon the spot naturally or accidentally in the first place, t is not something that can be rushed or approached like a clitoral orgasm.

If you are having troubles try a few of these helpful hints:

First of all, make sure your body is properly warmed. It always easier to come when you are relaxed and comfortable as opposed to being cold. Our bodies naturally seek heat and, in fact, when we are turned on, certain parts of our bodies are naturally warmer because of increased blood flow to these spots.

If you are someone who feels more comfortable when you are enveloped in the proper lighting and the sounds of low pounding music, I would strongly suggest you set the mood. The g-spot orgasm is as much a mental thing as a physical one. If you are not completely comfortable by yourself or with your lovers, it will not work.

What’s more, consider your surroundings when you embark on this journey of pleasure. Many women release a liquid when they achieve this particular kind of orgasm. The amount and consistency can differ but usually it is a sweet smelling, lightly colored or clear liquid that comes out in several gushy “squirts.” A doubled up towel under you will work fine.

Personally I believe that this is the hardest part of reaching this particular orgasm. If you haven’t gone to the restroom directly before you begin, you may worry that this pressure you are feeling is not an orgasm but simply the release of urine. I’d like to say that there is a way to tell the difference other than simply making sure you go before you start, but to be honest it doesn’t exactly feel different the first time around. If it IS an orgasm, though, I will say that this little bit of doubt in your mind could be preventing you from reaching it.

I believe the only way to really get over it is simply to act. Let go, surrender, give in. Pleasure is your goal and either way you are much more likely to enjoy yourself if you don’t let it worry you. Once you’ve achieved the vaginal orgasm a few times on your own, you’ll be able to adjust your position during intercourse, and have the confidence to achieve it with a partner.